men vs women..why?

Wassup Rose`Ray a.k.a Ray Cash here...most know me for being a rapper but jus cuz I'm a rapper don't mean my blogs have to consist of just that. So wit that said I wanna say a few things bout relationships..yesterday I was in a wedding for a couple I've known for a loooong time..and seeing them getting married made me think of my parents and grandparents who've all been togetha for what seems like foreva. But it also made me think of how nowadays marriage isn't evan considered anymore amongst young ppl tho we all have kids babymama's and babydaddy's(as if that's good enuff). Its wierd to see how time has changed when it comes to relationships and family especially amongst black ppl. A lot of us blackmen have hard struggle be it by not doin what society see's as the right thing or those who are trying to do what's right(whateva that is!) And a lot of women are totally more independent than past generations which is a wonderful thing to me unless u are so independent that you feel like "I dnt need a man to complete me" which we've all heard b4!!!! So to me it seems that as men and women we are totally divided between one another which is fuckin crazy to me...not sayin marriage is for everyone or even being in real long relationships are b/c its not,but everybody needs somebody. The guys that girls say "he aint bout shit!" Maybe he aint or Maybe he is..maybe u don't bring the best outta him. And for guys who say "she just want $!" Yea some do or maybe u one of them guys who can only attract someone by what u have. And sametime guys got to remember the clothes we wear,cars we drive etc.are for women cuz if it wasn't any women a man wld give a fuckless bout his appearance and how he's perceived. Can't say the same for females b/c they love to out do eachother its human nature I guess!!!lol But bottom line is aint nothing wrong wit lovin someone and bein loved...having that one person to accept you for who you are "flaws and all". That person that's there whether u all the way up or all the way down,they're there! That's love and I'm proud to say I have someone like that. You gotta bring something to the table 50/50 so they say..to me its no such thing as lookin for love b/c all u find is what u thought was love. If u do the right things love will find u,if not it aint meant to be and to me no one completes anyone but its a helleva better balance when u got someone to lean on is all I'm sayin!!! But this just my opinion, hope you've enjoyed my thoughts...now back to the $!!!! CHEERS!!!! Champagne on me...I'm out 100!